Shaking Hands Series- Part Two
Clam Power Player
Either aggressive or submissive signal of the hand palm is a kind of an energy and influence of the ” body language ” may be gained when a person knows how to use palm positions in due time and according to his/ her personality. In ” shaking hands “, the user of the fixed arm with palm downward position attempts to show others all kinds of authority he/ she has, either body force or the power of ” body language ” . He is always the beginner in ” shaking hands “, making the other person in the submissive position.
Hitler’s Nazi salute is a symbolic of this aggressive and offensive signal of the parts of the ” body language ” movements because it lets the others look for equality, but in vain and rarely to performance it. When someone feels he/ she has been given a sense of hostile against him/ her by the user of palm upward signal intentionally, he/ she will use one of the following different ways to adjust this position to be in parallel, which are:
- Invading the dominant’s space (how, when, and where):
Being given a palm downward by a professional power user, although it is difficult to change his/ her palm position, you should not offer him/ her your palm upward in ” shaking hands ” when you want to be equal, but be the beginner by making a step to occupy dominance person’s space as following:
- On the contrary of the most people, who forward on the right foot when shaking with the right hand in natural position, you should be the beginner in making a step forward with your left foot as that the distance between you and power user enabling you to shake his/ her hand.
- The next step must be with your right leg in an a crossing movement as to be in front of him/ her and to occupy the place that he/ she defines to himself/ herself in his/ her imagine.
- Then, move your left leg across the right one and shake his/ her hand with overwhelming his/ her arm wrestle with your other hand in the same time.
whatever the area in which ” shaking hands ” taking place is small , this way helps you to turn dominant’s palm to be equal with yours and even you may make your palm is the upper in all meanings of the word. However, this tactic needs more practicing.
- Double – hander ways:
When a professional power user proffers his/ her palm downward, which is known as the outline of dominance in Energetic of the ” body language ” movements, don’t hesitate to do the followings in due time to straighten his/ her palm :
- Offer him/ her your right hand with palm upward.
- Putting your left hand over his/ her shaking one.
- Make your hand as straight as the user of power’s.
In this way , you will draw the energy out of the power user to be your own. It is the simpler way to overcome the impressive ” shaking hands ” user . Women are advised to use this/ her way because of its easiness, simplicity, and it does not need a practice as the first way.
- The Last Resort:
If the user’s power of all part of ” body language ” movements used to handshake with dominance palm downward intentionally, you would, compelled, do the last effort which will astonish the power player. To apply this type of ” shaking hands “, do the followings:
- Offer your palm downward, but not flat, with firm arm
- Fix the top hand of dominant’s hand; clasping his/ her wrestle with your right hand which you will shake his/ her hand with, as to tell him/ her it’s enough I understand your intention, then shake his/ her hand.
It is preferred to use this way as the last effort if the user’s power is always shakes hands with impressive indication.
So, by following these tactics, you will invert the common statement that says: “The more submissive person takes a weak position the more a dominant shows aggressive intentions “. To become as following: the more a dominant shows aggressive intentions in all parts of the ” body language ” movements, the more a skill person uses insulting ways to perform equality.
write by : Nora Mustfa
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